It is not often that I watch television. My daughter and I haven’t had television service for many years now and even though she is on the cusp of turning 17 there are no complaints from her. We never really watched it much anyway. But yesterday I was in a situation where there was a television available and not much else to do so I thought I would see if an episode of SVU or Law and Order was on. There wasn’t, however I locked onto some show that was currently showing a small group of Kenyan tribespeople and figured it was a documentary.
Always wanting to learn more about other people and cultures, I stuck with it through the commercials to see what it was about. I noticed the logo on the screen was for MTV. I thought wow, MTV shows cultural documentaries now? What a change from the first time I watched MTV when I was in 2nd grade. First thing I ever saw on the channel was a video from Twisted Sister.
Anyway it was a show called Exiled. I’m sure most people have seen this show but it was my first time and I think the episode was a rerun. In any case it was about this highly spoiled brat-bitch of a teenager who was being sent to a remote area in Kenya to live with the African natives for a week to hopefully teach her just how good she has it where she is. Her father hoped she would learn some respect and learn about working.
Now, I am upset and when I am in this state I can get off point trying to make a point, so I hope I don’t meander too far off course. I was not completely disgusted with this spoiled girl, it happens and her father admitted he had a huge hand in making her the way she was but this was his attempt to fix it, to wake her up. So there is some respect I have for that. I was not disgusted by her whiny and complaining behavior when in Kenya, sleeping in a cow dung hut on a cow skin with no pillow, 20km from water. I understand that…she’s spoiled so the behavior on her part was expected.
It is not new for any of us in America to watch these types of shows or National Geographic documentaries and see how other cultures live…what they have what they don’t have, etc. None of this was a shock to me…and while what I am about to say is not a shock to me either, I have reached a new level of disgust with Americans and people in general.
I personally have no problem with work. My family taught me that hard work is a part of life, including manual labor. Any time I ever complained about hauling in wood all day for winter was soon quashed when I realized if it doesn’t get done, my ass is going to be mighty cold in January. I have worked all my life whether at home or out of the home. My first job out of the home was when I was ten years old, washing dishes three hours on Saturday and Sunday afternoons.
Anyway…you see how I get off point. Here is what moved me to a new level of disgust.
I am sitting there watching these beautiful African people share their culture with this girl and seeing all the hard work they must do to survive because there is no other alternative, seeing how their family ties are more deep and loving than many American families….and on comes an advertisement for ring tones.
That is what set me off in my head. A simple ad for ring tones. Then an ad for a Visa card that is a prepay debit card…for the people that have had their credit ruined for whatever reason…then an ad for sending in your old gold jewelry for cash…..then an advertisement for the new Blackberry.
This stark contrast hit me in a much newer way. Possibly because I have finally been to Europe…gotten completely out of North America and have met more people in different parts of the world. Maybe I’m just getting older…read: more mature. lol
Rich people, for the most part, have disgusted me in the past. Not the fact that they are rich, but that they waste their money. Does life really insist you have a $5000.00 handbag?? I mean…is THAT what life is about? But I realized yesterday that so many people in America complain about the rich….but they do the same thing themselves. People with hardly any money still make stupid decisions with their money and then complain about not having money and come up with excuses as to why how their life is is not their fault. Most of these people are angry and unhappy people.
Money ruins people. It ruins relationships between people and not just because one owes the other or one scams the other. But how many times have you seen or heard of rich people with drug problems….same with people with less income. We have created a society of escapists and I think a lot of it has to do with money, either the hoarding of it, the getting of it or the lack of it.
Our entire country is spoiled like that California rich girl. We have turned into the world’s brats. Though at least some people are trying to change that. I am not saying there isn’t anyone in America that doesn’t appreciate what they have and I am not saying that there aren’t any people that don’t work hard for what they have…hell…I’m one of them.
So the next time you are sitting at your television consider the advertisements….for this is what people are buying or there would be no ads for the products…this is what we are…what America is….cell phones, ring tones, how to get money fast, how to lose weight fast. Botox and Fake Breast Nation.
Some people’s biggest decision of the day is whether to take the Gucci or Prada handbag to brunch where they will purchase a $15.00 latte and not eat because they may actually consume a calorie or two.
It’s all fake. Our society is fake. Maybe that is why I don’t quite fit in most days. I picked Information Technology as my field because I understand the software and the hardware. I choose to operate in a services to clients capacity because I can explain technical things easily to people.
But I am finding I am too much of a real person to actually be employed by a larger company. I don’t fit in with the culture of most companies because I relate more to the customer than to the fake pretentions of coworkers. I don’t schmooze, I don’t kiss ass, I don’t gossip. I have more respect for myself and my life and what I leave behind than to be this way.
I am probably one of very few people in the technology field that doesn’t have some sort of orgasm when a new gadget is released…or a new video card comes out. I have very few “must have’s” where technology is concerned. Sometimes I feel like I shouldn’t even be in America, somehow I don’t fit in to what ya’ll got going on.
While watching that show I actually thought….wouldn’t it be nice to live there with those people. Yes you have to walk a bit over ten miles for water, yes you have to butcher your own meat (something I’m not foreign to), yes it’s flippin hot and you make your shelter from mud,water and cow shit. But everyone cares so deeply for each other…and there really is no stress. Not stress like our society creates. Sure it would be stressful to get some sort of infection and not be able to walk to water to wash and etc….but to be able to be in a place where deadlines are seasonal….no matter how rough life is compared to how it is in America….to me…it would be a blessing.
I think I just made up my mind to go to Africa within the next few years, I think it would be prudent for me to go to. Since spending a month in Sweden this past fall I had thought my next trip would be to Italy or Ireland…but now, I am thinking I should go to Africa. And who knows….I just might stay.